How not to use Facebook for marketing
For the last few days I’ve been privy to an interesting example of how not to use social networks for marketing. It all started when somebody I don’t know (let’s call him John) asked to be my friend on Facebook.
I don’t know John and have never known John. It became clear that we were both members of a couple of groups and that was, I assumed, where he had got my details from. I have a fairly tight group of friends on Facebook and use it mainly to keep in touch with people I know and don’t get to see as often as I like. So I haven’t accepted his invite. I did look at his profile though and the very day he asked me to be his friend he also befriended almost 200 other people.
People are popular, but often not all at the same time like this so I wanted to find out why.
As I checked back at John’s profile, signs came with his changing statuses. First was one telling us that his new book was out in a few months and we should call his PA to reserve a copy. Next came an update about a radio interview he was doing and then came one about an event.
It may be a coincidence but it seemed as though John had found people with interests aligned with his new book and asked them to be his friend so that he could constantly market his new book through their feeds.
Clever you might think and there are lots of people (myself included) who feed their blog posts and other items through Facebook. The problem came in John’s approach to adding friends.
Over the last couple of days posts have appeared on his wall saying things like
Thanks for the ad. Who are you?
This wasn’t just spam. John is a real person who has found people with similar interests to him and asked to befriend them. This happens all the time. That John was trying to use this for marketing just highlights the complexities of using Facebook for this.
Facebook is a very personal space. It’s the place I go to to find out about my friends, post my photos and read my messages. This can be a very difficult context for brands, or anybody trying to market a product, to enter. You are interrupting a user’s experience and need to do it sensibly and sensitively. Whilst some people will be happy to receive your updates to their news-feed, others will see this as an intrusion.
Of course dealing with this is easy. Just don’t befriend them. From the marketers perspective this makes it difficult to control who you can get your message to.

Krishna De:
Thanks for connecting to my article. Absolutely Facebook is a community for personal connections and if we are seen to over promote our business on our personal profile page then we run the risk of being banned from Facebook as I have seen happen to some people.
Developing a Facebook group or Facebook page for your brand is an alternative strategy to follow as I am sure you guide your clients in.
29 July 2008, 8:19 pmMatt Rhodes:
Hi Krishna,
Thanks for your comment. You’re right that overtly using Facebook in this way is a dangerous tactic in terms of getting barred. I also think that you run the risk of alienating the very people you are trying to market to. When you try to engage people in Facebook you have to interrupt the very thing they went to the site to do (share photos of their weekend, leave a post for a friend etc). People don’t like this very personal space being interrupted. If you’re going to do it then you need to do it carefully.
Matt
30 July 2008, 5:57 pmChirag:
Yes I agree with you Matt. I think Facebook can still be used only to gather data if people are wiling to make it publicly available and then target these people with consent via another web-based medium like a blog.
31 July 2008, 3:51 amMatthew Brazil:
I agree. Facebook is where I do my personal stuff, connect with friends outside of work and family. I try to keep it as separate as possible with only a few trusted work colleagues connected to me. Being pushed adverts and people/groups wanting to connect purely on a marketing basis I try to ignore.
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